Posts by Shira Miller
3 Ways to Gain More Self-Honesty
Most of us are taught at a young age that honesty is the best policy. Perhaps that’s why it is ironic that people who would never stretch the truth to get out of a speeding ticket or consider fudging their taxes will lie like crazy when it comes to themselves. You know what I mean.…
Read MoreIt’s Possible to Avoid Burnout in a Fast-Paced Workplace. Here’s How.
“Burnout is an occupational hazard in my field and except in the case of vacation, I have to be available when needed after hours. My solution is to start each morning focused on recharging activities, like listening to a meditative recording, journaling, or exercising before heading into work so I arrive feeling more energetic and…
Read More4 Ways to Leave Your Comfort Zone
Over the past few decades, the concept of breaking out of one’s comfort zone has garnered a lot of attention. Self-help gurus have urged their followers to do things like walk over hot coals or jump out of airplanes. Nike has built an empire on the advertising slogan, “Just Do it.” We’ve watched popular movies…
Read MoreHow to Navigate a Life Transition
I’m directionally-challenged, able to get lost in a semi-complicated parking deck. That’s why I think GPS is one of the best inventions ever. But no matter how strong my connection is, there’s one place that my smart phone can’t navigate – a life transition. We’ve all had them in our personal and professional lives, some…
Read MoreSaying yes to myself
I’ve made some questionable decisions over the years. Like unsuccessfully trying to adopt Madonna’s 1980’s streetwear swagger in college, not buying stock in that start-up online bookseller called Amazon and signing a six-year extension on a fancy office space lease right before the Great Recession struck. My track record has certainly gotten better though. In…
Read MoreWhat Rocketman can teach us about authentic leadership
From watching the entrancing trailers to reading about the standing ovation it received at the Cannes Film Festival, I was looking forward to seeing the movie Rocketman. What I didn’t expect was how much it would exceed the hype. Delightful, gritty and filled with moments of magical realism, this touching story about the rise, struggles…
Read MoreThrive Personally and Professionally by Embracing Vulnerability
When you think of highly secure locations, Fort Knox, the Vatican’s Secret Archives, the White House or James Bond’s stomping grounds at the MI6 headquarters might come to mind. However, despite cutting-edge security technology, armed guards or reinforced concrete walls, the most intensely guarded places can often be inside of ourselves. Society celebrates those who…
Read MoreStop saying sorry when there is no reason to apologize
Ever notice how many times you preface a statement, often one that is heartfelt and meaningful, with apologetic words like “I’m sorry,” “this sounds silly,” “I might be crazy,” or “you are going to think I’m stupid, but.” Whether you are trying to defuse a tense situation, deliver bad news or avoid being disliked, it…
Read MoreHow to Reinvent Your Life at Any Age
Faye Goldberg Miller, my mother, is a force of nature. At 81 years old, my mom’s infectious laugh turns heads. She works out several times a week and has been known to curse like a sailor, especially if you cut her off in traffic. Her wardrobe and sense of humor are fierce. Throughout my entire…
Read More6 Ways to Add More Time to Your Day
Some people consider unlimited data plans, weekend Netflix binges or responsibly-sourced bling to be a precious commodity. For me, it is time. As Charles Darwin once said, “a man who dares to waste one hour of time has not discovered the value of life.” I was reminded about that recently while visiting the campus of…
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